Editor's Note: It is a rather interesting coincidence that this blog post is going up just before yet another Toronto play. This Friday (August 5, 2011) Sloan will be performing a free, outdoor, all-ages, licensed show at Ontario Place's new
"Echo Beach" stage. Chris would suggest that I should have posted this weeks ago, but I would counter that this was all part of an elaborate scheme to keep the website interesting with timely updates through the summer months. (xxmn)
TORONTO Tuesday, June 21st
Any show on the same day as a family day at home is trouble for me. It means I have to get up 13 – 15 hours before the show when my energy is supposed to peak and if there is to be a family day the next day, I have to unwind quickly and get to bed so I’ll
be ready for the kids at 6am. I should add that I am a big baby about sleep at the best of times so since we have had kids I have been somewhat of a constant nightmare for my “wife character”/girlfriend/baby’s mama, Rebecca.
I invited my favourite band in the under 14 division, Toronto’s own
11 Toes and their parents to our “sound test”. I had just seen them (for the 3rd time) at
Tot Stock, an amazing kids’ event with a music component, which featured our friends
Oldies 990 (members of
Local Rabbits) and 11 Toes.
At the sound test, we did the whole picture-taking thing on stage with 11 Toes holding Sloan’s guitars then I showed them our tour bus. I hung out with their parents as each of the kids took a bunk and watched the tiny TV’s that are in the bunks. I may have watched TV in my bunk 5 times in 20 years. They watched the sound test and were very appreciative. Rock on kids!
I biked home in time to say goodnight to my own kids. We got a babysitter and Rebecca and I biked down to the show. The Mod Club is great and it’s right in the neighbourhood. We had a large guest list. Lately our tour manager/manager Mike has been calling them “guessed lists” as he is pretty much able to make the lists without asking us for names based on who we’ve been talking about and using old guest lists.
When we hit the stage it seemed as if I knew just about everyone. The crowd was receptive but I was somewhat distracted from all of the (ridiculous) winking I was doing at the people I knew. I saw my cousin Greg and realized that I was supposed to have put him on the guest list and couldn’t remember having done it. It is difficult to ask someone whether or not they had to pay to get in and at the same time apologize for forgetting to put them on the list with your eyebrows but that’s what I attempted to do during “Follow The Leader”.
Rebecca stayed until the end of the encore but went right home to relieve the sitter and to wisely get as much sleep as she could before the kids wake up in the morning. I stayed to talk to people after the show as I always try to do and hung out pretty late on our bus talking to friends. I knew I had a family day that would come early but tour starts tomorrow and I will have lots of opportunity to sleep then.
TORONTO Wednesday, June 22nd
I was a bit of a mess getting up but I had a great day with the family. There was no sound test so tonight I was able to partake in the goings on between 5:00 and 8:00 that we call “bed, bath and beyond”. By that we mean dinner, the bath and bedtime stories. Once the kids were down I had to pack for the next leg of the tour then I said goodbye to Rebecca and took the streetcar down to the Mod Club.
Well, I’m sorry Tuesday people but I have to say that the second show at The Mod Club was better. I’m not sure why. Was it us? Was it the crowd? Wednesday did go on sale first, which may have meant that the people who bought tickets first were more determined to see us play. I had been somewhat distracted by all the people I knew on Tuesday. Patrick told me after the Tuesday show that he nearly pulled the plug on the before we started. He was that sick. I had no idea. He powered through it and pulled it off but I’m sure he preferred the show where he didn’t feel quite that bad. We had also been off for about 10 days so we might have been a bit rusty on Tuesday. Anyway, Wednesday just felt looser but Tuesday (the night that all of the journalists wrote about) was fun too.
I don’t think we’ve ever played a gig in Toronto, since we’ve lived here, when we didn’t sleep in our own beds that night. I think I was excited even while on stage to know that there was no incentive to beat it the hell home after the show to get enough sleep to not be a terrible co-parent the next day. I went out after the show to
Sneaky Dee’s for nachos. The last time I did that was when
the Evaporators stayed at the place that I lived in before I moved to the place I lived in before the one I live in now. I always feel a little bit guilty staying up late on tour knowing I don’t have to get up with my kids but I felt especially guilty doing that in Toronto with my family sleeping just down the street. Anyway, I had fun.